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Advice from Heather Havrilesky, author of Ask Polly, formerly of New York Magazine
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'I'm Not Embarrassed by My Dream Anymore!'
Being imperfect out in the open is a necessary prerequisite for creating art.
Heather Havrilesky
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'How the Fuck Do I Avoid Major Regret?'
You don't. None of us do.
Heather Havrilesky
Aug 9
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'I'm Sixty And I Wasted My Whole Life!'
Those so-called wasted years cleared you a path to magic.
Heather Havrilesky
Aug 4
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‘How Do I Make Myself Soft Again?’
Dare to take yourself (and your emotions) more seriously.
Heather Havrilesky
Aug 1
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'I'm Jealous of My Ex-BFF!'
Stop praying to false gods and build yourself a temple.
Heather Havrilesky
Jul 26
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"I Quit and I Feel So Guilty About It!'
Once you address your shame, setting healthy boundaries becomes second nature.
Heather Havrilesky
Jul 25
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Looking vs. Feeling Beautiful
Clear eyes, wide open hearts, can't lose.
Heather Havrilesky
Jul 20
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'I'm Pregnant and I'm Freaking Out!'
Instead of panicking over parental horror stories, breathe deep and welcome the unknown.
Heather Havrilesky
Jul 19
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